How many of us take life for granted... expecting to experience the long-term ageing process... to "grow old together"...
This has been a sobering birthday... realising I have already outlived 2 of my friends... one died suddenly aged 44, the other had been battling a condition for decades, but her death at 45 was still a big shock. Miss 44 would have been 48 this year... Miss 45 only turned 45 in December, and was gone in January. We'd been friends since we were 8 years old.
While my family was celebrating another year of my life, another family in America was remembering their son - who shared my birthday. I can't begin to imagine how this date feels to their hearts and minds. Another life who will not grow old on earth... Can I also add, this man was young, but his life is making an impact! People all over the world have grown to know him, and admire the life he lived- because he LIVED. His parents keep his legacy alive, and through their grief, his legacy makes ripples. This young man's short life encourages others to find purpose in life. To make the most of life, as he did.
Lastly, while I was enjoying my family... Another friend was planning & executing the funeral of her soulmate. I can't imagine this deep loss... Life just feels so cruel sometimes... I know my friend will be ok, but my spirit grieves for her and her family. My heart says she is too young to be a widow... but also knows she's a warrior and big things are on the horizon for her!
So, as I feel extra grateful for another birthday, I have made the decision to keep living. I can't fix these things, and I can't change circumstances. So, I choose to keep living and enjoy the life I have. I have shed many tears for my friends, but I believe they would all expect me to keep living my life. Life truly is a gift. Don't waste your talents and love 🦋©️
Ecclesiastes 3:1 NIV. There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens...
