I had a shift this morning with a lady in her home... she was
HORRID!!!!!!!!! HORRID!!!!!!!!! HORRID!!!!!!!! HORRID!!!!!!!!! HORRID!!!!!!!! HORRID!!!!!!!!! HORRID!!!!!!!!!Ok, she wasn't very nice... She was yelling at somebody on the phone when I arrived... and it seemed in the 4hrs I was with her, all she could do was complain about how bad everybody was... she was horrid...and then she was nice...horrid...nice...horrid....nice...horrid...horrid...horrid...kind of nice...Bleh.
And I asked her to tell me what she wanted me to do because it's her house and I don't know what the usual staff do... it went fine...for a while... then half an hour before my shift ended, she just let loose on me... telling me what I didn't do and how bad I am because I didn't certain things... and every comment (I held back) I made was shot at with abuse... I couldn't wait to get home!!!
What was worse is I re-stated a few times to tell me what she wanted done... but she stopped asking...and just wanted chat chat chat.... and then BANG! You didn't do this! You didn't do that! you didn't say that! blah blah blah.... When I DID do things like start to wash the dishes...more abuse... when I didn't do the dishes... nobody can do anything right in her world...
Then she kind of aplogises for being so mean... I didn't care by then. She expected somebody qualified. Her idea of qualified is to be able to read her mind and do everything right. I don't read minds.
I'm never going to see her again!!!! :) :) :) :) (By choice)
I wish I stayed in bed this morning... my body didn't want to get up but I forced it... I went to bed at 11.30 last nite and feel robbed of sleep by people like her.
This is just the nice highlights of my day... It was worse than that ;) Now I can relax and just be :)